a bossy ("bosshee") bean?

talk about backseat driving...

our little miss manners here not only says "bless you" to a person when he/she sneezes, but she also likes to remind folks to "seat belt buckle" (i.e. to buckle one's seat belt) when she's in the car.

when she thinks daddy is driving too fast (e.g. when going downhill) she'd call out, "be careful daddy!"

with prompting the bean will also help us to signal left or right when turning the car - by raising whichever arm is relevant.

and when we arrive at our destination, no matter where it is, she would announce, "home!"